Circumcision in America
The First Cut Is the Deepest
By Cat Saunders
I grew up in the United States with a circumcised
brother and circumcised friends, all my lovers were circumcised, and I
didn't even see an intact penis until 1975, when I was 21. During the
'50s and '60s when I was a child, the rate of circumcision in
America was much higher than it is today, and it was extremely uncommon
for a boy not to be circumcised.
Looking back to that first glimpse of a whole
penis, I'm not even sure I realized what I was looking at. I remember
being very intrigued. However, that particular penis belonged to a friend
instead of a lover, so I never had the opportunity to satisfy my curiosity
beyond a polite visual survey whenever we exchanged massages or took a
hot tub together. Since then, I've had other uncircumcised male friends,
but never an intact lover, so my explorations were always limited to conversations
and visual contact.
Like most of my contemporaries, I grew up under
the influence of the prevailing belief (now debunked) that male circumcision
was necessary for "hygiene" reasons. The American Medical Association
has long since denounced that thinking and now correctly states that there
is no medical reason to routinely circumcise infant males.
The Truth About Hygiene
If you want to read about the Victorian roots
of circumcision "hygiene" arguments and how they contributed
to an upsurge of circumcision in the United States, please see the end
of this article for information about NOHARMM's Web site. If you go there,
you can use their search engine to find articles about Dr. John Kellogg
the same Kellogg of cereal fame and the subject of a movie called
The Road to Wellville.
Kellogg was a hygiene fanatic and one of this
country's biggest advocates of infant male circumcision as a means to
discourage masturbation. He also advocated pouring carbolic acid on the
clitorises of little girls in order to discourage masturbation. To a large
extent, Americans can thank this obsessed doctor (along with a few of
his contemporaries) for the turn-of-the century rise of male circumcision
in the United States.
As far as I'm concerned, the hygiene argument
can be easily discredited by thinking about animals. If circumcision was
necessary to prevent infection in penises, animals would be in big trouble,
wouldn't they? After all, if intact penises were more vulnerable to infection,
there would be a lot of animals running around with infected genitals!
The truth is, the foreskin protects the
head of the penis, including protecting it from infection. This is one
of the foreskin's primary immunological functions. It makes sense. Something
as evolutionarily precious as a penis deserves to be protected, don't
you think?
Babies Feel Pain!
When I was growing up, conventional Western doctors
didn't even believe that babies feel pain. No wonder they could advise
parents to allow surgery without anesthesia on their infants' genitals.
I remember hearing on the news as recently as the late 1990s that doctors
were conducting experiments to prove that babies feel pain. Imagine that!
With doctors like this, and with a culture that
rewards males for stoicism, it's also no wonder that many circumcised
adult males think they're "fine" and that their circumcisions
were "no big deal." Because of this socialization and the prevailing
macho mentality, it takes real courage for men to speak out against
this assault on male bodies. Such men run the risk of being labeled wimps,
instead of being seen as the human rights champions that they are.
In my early thirties, when I finally started
thinking about circumcision, I realized that just because a man
survived his circumcision and has no conscious memory of it, this doesn't
mean he or the fact of his circumcision is fine.
After all, many women in Third World countries who have been circumcised
and socialized to accept it as normal also think they're fine,
but I don't buy it in their case, either.
In Praise of the Fully Functional Penis
I chose monogamy with the love of my life, who
is circumcised, without ever having experienced lovemaking with an uncircumcised
man. I confess that I've been happily spoiled by my wonderful partner
and other circumcised lovers before him. However, I do sometimes wonder
what I missed by never having an intact lover, particularly since I now
know about the benefits of a "fully functional" penis that still
has its foreskin.
Having had only circumcised lovers is like growing
up with a black-and-white TV and then finding out there's color. If all
you've ever known is black-and-white television, that's pretty wonderful
in itself. But if you had a choice, wouldn't you rather have the full
spectrum?
Having said what I said about intact men having
fully functional penises, I'm guessing that I've insulted or even enraged
a lot of circumcised men and perhaps even some of their lovers
by inferring that a circumcised penis is not fully functional.
But how could it be, when an extremely important part of it is missing?
Consider this: When a circumcision is performed,
what would become 15 square inches (when erect) of sensitive penile tissue
is cut off and thrown away. Lost along with these 15 square inches of
foreskin are 24-40,000 nerve endings as well as important protective,
immunological, and sexual functions.
Did you know, for example, that the penile skin system of an intact man has 33%-50% more tissue than a circumcised penis, and that this
highly erogenous tissue enhances sexual pleasure for a man and his partner in ways that a circumcised penis cannot?
Aside from the sexual consequences of circumcision
at the purely physiological level, I personally believe that there are
psychological, social, spiritual, and even cultural consequences to this
assault on the sex organs of baby boys. Of course, I realize that the
full extent of these consequences might be difficult to prove in scientifically
measurable ways. However, no matter what you or I or anyone thinks about
circumcision's far-reaching consequences, it all comes down to the issue
of basic human rights.
The Question of Genital Mutilation
Americans recoil in horror at reports of female
circumcision, whether it occurs in Third World countries or in isolated
instances here in the United States. With female circumcision, no one
seems to object when it is called what it is: genital mutilation.
Yet here in America, where the majority of baby boys (57%) are still subjected
to involuntary circumcision at birth, most people still object to calling
male circumcision what it is: genital mutilation.
In addition, since most (though not all) male
circumcisions are not as profoundly debilitating as female circumcisions,
many Americans still deny that male circumcision is brutal at all. Yet
routine infant male circumcision forcefully removes the foreskin of the
penis, and this does seem to fit the definition of mutilate, which
is "to cut off or permanently destroy an essential part."
Do you think I'm exaggerating when I call involuntary
male circumcision genital mutilation, just because it's not usually
as bad as female circumcision? Then I beg you to reconsider. For one thing,
some infant male circumcisions are so badly botched that they require
penile amputation. Did you know about this risk? Although it's statistically
rare, would you want it to be your son who lost his penis to a
botched circumcision?
Even during so-called "routine" circumcisions, here's what happens
thousands of times each day in American hospitals: A newborn baby
boy is strapped down to a board (such as a Circumstraint, pictured at
right); a clamp is applied to pull back and crush his foreskin; and then,
while he screams and struggles in vain to escape or passes out
from shock that piece of sensitive penile tissue I mentioned is
sliced from his tiny penis without anesthesia, and, obviously,
without his permission.
Can you imagine an adult male allowing this to
be done to his genitals? As one of my regretfully circumcised friends
says, "If those little babies were as big as the doctors who cut
on them, there would be a lot of beat-up doctors in this country."
To any circumcised man who says involuntary circumcision
is no big deal (since most circumcised men can't remember it), I say denial
runs deep. However, I bet this denial would end immediately if I suggested
to such a man that a team of Sumo wrestlers (to analogize the size difference
between infants and medical personnel) will now overpower him, forcefully
strap him to a board, and cut off a slice of his penis without anesthesia.
Would he still say this is not genital mutilation?
Babies of Both Sexes Deserve Protection
Involuntary infant circumcision occurs for one
reason and one reason alone: because the babies are helpless to defend
themselves. But if the victims of circumcision cannot defend themselves,
and if the government offers no legal protection, then who will defend
them?
I believe that those of us who can see what's
happening must defend the rights of helpless infants. Hopefully, those
who can see will grow in number until everyone is included. At that
point, all circumcision both male and female will
become a thing of the past, like so many other barbaric human rituals.
For now, there are many committed individuals
and organizations spearheading the cause. If you know it's time to stop
involuntary circumcision for both sexes, not just females, then
perhaps you, too, can help. You can start at the grassroots level by talking
with your own family and friends.
If you do talk with people about circumcision,
be prepared to encounter apathy, indignation, or outright denial. This
is par for the course when prevailing beliefs are questioned. If you need
support to know what to say, or if you simply want to point friends and
family in the direction of reliable resources, there are many highly respected
organizations ready to help (see end of article).
In working to ban circumcision, some people come
from a place of intellect, realizing that circumcision is medically unnecessary.
Others come from a place of heart, knowing that circumcision is brutal
and cruel. Still others reject circumcision for political, spiritual,
or moral reasons, because circumcision violates basic human rights.
No matter where you're coming from, your voice
counts, because one voice might save another baby. It is possible
to stop circumcision, and stop it we will. Together.
This article was originally published by The New Times in October 2001.
For additional information about circumcision,
please visit the Web site for the National Organization of Circumcision
Information Resource Centers (NOCIRC) at www.nocirc.org
(phone: 415-488-9883). Cat would like to thank NOCIRC's founder and
director, Marilyn Milos, R.N., for her ongoing support and her expert
help with the research for this article.
For more information about circumcision,
including the site-specific search engine mentioned in this article,
please visit the Web site for the National Organization to Halt the
Abuse and Routine Mutilation of Males (NOHARMM) at www.noharmm.org
(phone: 415-826-9351).
NOHARMM has included Dr. Cat's Helping
Handbook in its Web site's online bookstore in honor of Cat Saunders'
writing against circumcision on page 113 of her book. If you order Dr.
Cat's Helping Handbook via NOHARMM's Web site (above), their anti-circumcision
efforts will receive a small contribution to the cause. Dr. Cat's
Helping Handbook is available at your local bookstore or through
Amazon.com.
Cat Saunders, Ph.D., is a counselor and consultant,
shamanic practitioner, and nonsectarian
minister. She is the author of Dr.
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